Posts tagged shame
No one knows what they're doing with money

As you start to work on your finances, you’ll probably find that it’s a lot more work than you thought. There’s a lot more nuance, there are a lot of decisions. There’s a lot to learn. (That’s where I come in).

On top of that, whenever you start to work on your money, a lot of feelings come up. Confusion. Overwhelm. Anger. Fear. Shame.

Let’s talk about that last one. Shame.

 

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F*ck single ply (AKA stop feeling bad about spending money!)

Do you ever find yourself saying, “Oh, I know I shouldn’t spend that, but…”, or “I know it seems extravagant, but…” in a dismissive way - in a way that indicates that you should feel guilty or ashamed of your spending?

Stop doing that.

I want you to stop feeling bad about your spending.

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Your money problems are a symptom

How do we know when we are sick?

We get a tickle in our nose, we get a nauseous feeling, we get a headache. Our body experiences pain or discomfort. We feel that pain and we do one of two things - we either treat the symptom (take some pain medication), or we treat the symptom and the underlying disease. We know, from experience, that a symptom rarely is a finite, disconnected thing. It’s usually the tip of the iceberg that we can see or feel, signaling a bigger issue underneath. Sometimes that’s a routine issue like a cold or flu, but sometimes it’s something bigger.

Money sickness is a real thing, too. Here are some of its symptoms - recognize any?

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